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Thursday, August 29, 2013

9 ways to UNCOMPLICATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP

9 ways to UNCOMPLICATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
IT'S SO EASY TO OVER-COMPLICATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP...
here are some basic 'rules of the relationship road' that will help uncomplicate things, keep you headed in the right direction ~ and keep you both happy....

1. Successful relationships take work. They don't happen in a vacuum. They occur when the couples in them take the risk of sharing what it is that's going on in their hearts and heads. 

 2. You can only change yourself, not your partner. If you love someone and think that after a while he or she will alter behaviours you find uncomfortable, think again. If you want changes, put them on the table so your partner knows what you need. 

 3. All arguments stem from our own fear or pain. When upset occurs, check out what's going on inside of you rather than get angry with your partner. Truth is that we usually aren't upset for the reasons
we think we are. 

 4. Understand that men and women are very different. We're not from Mars or Venus; we're not even in the same solar system. Understanding and celebrating our differences will make living together more peaceful, interesting, and fun. 

 5. Honour each other in some way every day. Every morning you have the opportunity to make your relationship sweeter and deeper by recommitting to your mate. Feeling respected and cherished by the one you love makes life much nicer. 

 6. Anger is a waste of time. Anger is also a relationship killer, because it makes you self-absorbed and won't allow you to see the good. If you are annoyed with your mate, give yourself some time to calm down and then gently discuss what's going on for you. 

 7. Find a way to become and stay best friends. For some this sounds unromantic, but for those who live it, most say it's the best part of their time together. 

 8. Be responsible for your own happiness. No other person can make you happy. It's something you have to do on your own. If you feel it's your partner's fault, think again, and look within to find out what piece may be missing for you. 

 9. Give what you want to get. Our needs change with time. If you'd like to feel understood, try being more understanding. If you want to feel more love, try giving more. 

It's a simple program that really works. There are no guarantees, but couples who practice these techniques have longer and stronger relationships than those who are not proactive in their love.



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